According to psychologist Gabriela Ensinck Argentina, the fact of being an only child is not a defining element alone the future of a child. Its evolution, like any other, depends on the education that parents give. The only child may have development as healthy as a child with siblings. Some problems experienced by children, such as dependence on parents, consent, overprotection, introversion, etc. are not only characteristics of only children. It should, mostly to the way parents raise them.
Today between 20 and 30% of couples have one child.
Many families who choose to have only one child for different reasons. First, having only one child gives the mother more opportunities to work outside the home. Second, many parents fail to have the desired number of two or three children due to early termination of marriage. Thirdly, infertility, prevents the birth of more children. And in China the situation is special. The government limits the population forcing families to have only one child.
Is there something positive in having only one child?
On the one hand, families of concerns is half and half of expenses. It is also possible to take better care of the child and give more opportunities and facilities in life. There are experts who claim that only children have more capacity to be winners in life. They believe that the child lives with a lesser burden of anxiety as it has to compete for space and attention from their parents. What both on a downside because the child does not learn to share.
Everything belongs.
The problem of growing up without siblings is that all expectations and family demands are placed upon him. Maybe that's why some studies suggest that an only child growing ideas of winning, because their parents project their own hopes in him and will always require giving the best of himself. The only child is the one who suffer the fears and mistakes of their parents. You will not have to share it. And also can be bored a little more than normal. But nothing is final. Both only children as having brothers go through the same situations.
On the one hand, families of concerns is half and half of expenses. It is also possible to take better care of the child and give more opportunities and facilities in life. There are experts who claim that only children have more capacity to be winners in life. They believe that the child lives with a lesser burden of anxiety as it has to compete for space and attention from their parents. What both on a downside because the child does not learn to share.
Everything belongs.
The problem of growing up without siblings is that all expectations and family demands are placed upon him. Maybe that's why some studies suggest that an only child growing ideas of winning, because their parents project their own hopes in him and will always require giving the best of himself. The only child is the one who suffer the fears and mistakes of their parents. You will not have to share it. And also can be bored a little more than normal. But nothing is final. Both only children as having brothers go through the same situations.
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